As a bi (pan), poly person in a straight-seeming V, I deal with a lot of identity denial. Right now, I'm dealing with my own internalized misogyny. I view women as objects to be pedestalized, but unattainable or just generally straight and uninterested. I see men as much more approachable because I see them as more sexual in nature. These are VASTLY untrue assumptions and they put myself and my potential partners at a total disadvantage. It's a process! Kimchi Cuddles really helped me identify these issues. Check them out!